Is Your Spouse Cheating?

You suddenly get a strange feeling in your stomach. It feels as if you ate a rancid piece of food and every couple of minutes your body urges your stomach muscles to twist and turn in agony. You turn to look at your spouse and while he/she smiles at you with glistening teeth, you suffer in anguish knowing, better yet feeling, that they are guilty of cheating. There is nothing worse than suspecting that your spouse is cheating on you and knowing that they either don't care if you know or not, or they think they are incapable of being caught. If your intuition is screaming that your spouse is guilty of cheating, then it is most likely correct. However, if you want to be absolutely certain if they are cheating without falsely accusing them without any evidence, here are several options for you:

Option 1: Hire a private investigator.

 There is nothing better than seeking professional help. They are trained to do this.

Option 2: Know your spouse.

There comes a point in a relationship where you become familiar with your partners habits and behavioral patterns. If things start to change without there being a dramatic incident in the persons' life, such as a death in the family or trouble at work, then you must start paying more attention. If your spouse starts suddenly working out and doing things in the bedroom that they have never done before then you need to start paying a little more attention. This doesn't mean that you need to start checking their every move or tracking the amount of times they text and/or call someone. This means that you need to start taking notice of new or changed behaviors, such as putting a lock on their phone, or coming home later than usual everyday from work. If all of these things sound familiar, then your baby is cheating on you.

Option 3: Sex

If you suddenly have less and less sex, and every night you hear, "Maybe tomorrow" or "Honey I'm tired" or something else equally as lame, then your spouse has received some loving from someone else and doesn't want your goods anymore. Everyone (for the most part) loves sex; therefore if your spouse doesn't want to have sex with you, then they are simply no attracted to you anymore or has found someone else.

Conclusion: If you are reading this and are experiencing the pains of being cheated on my advice is to say "the hell with that person" and move on. Remaining in a relationship with a cheater is not good for you. Emotionally it is not good for your self-esteem and physically messing with a cheater may leave you with a curable or incurable sexually transmitted disease. Not having sex or relationships with cheaters is the best type of health insurance.

Hope this helps

-Zuri